Monday, March 10, 2008

My Blog Will Have to Wait.



Due to my work schedule, my blogging will have to take a backseat for a couple of weeks. My yearbook class has a major deadline approaching in two weeks, during Spring break! So anything not done before break means I'll be working instead of relaxing!
I also started a new phase in my diet, the weight room. Going very well and it feels nice to rejoin my old friend IRON and PAIN. I'm finding it hard to "go easy" and paying dearly for it!!! My muscles are so damn sore, wiping my ass even hurts. Even with sore muscles I'm enjoying the journey back to where I should be and miss being. Since starting my diet in Mid-January, I've lost 18lbs and have 76lbs to go to be at the weight of my wedding day.

Monday, March 3, 2008

StoogeBrothers Production

My boys put their first Stop-Motion video on YouTube. They came up with the name "Stoogebrothers Production" as their film name, I love it! I guess those early morning Spike T.V. stooge marathons made a lasting impression.
If you get a chance, leave them a note on You-Tube.



Saturday, March 1, 2008

What exactly is a cool parent?


I think in most cases it would be one who doesn’t care what time you get home, thinks that homework is unimportant, and is willing to let the rules be more like guidelines. Sometimes it is easy to forget that these rules apply to parents too, not just the kids. As much as we like to think parents are the end alls of authority, they aren’t. When it comes to federal and state laws, even parents are not exempt.

When in high school, it was not uncommon for there to be parties with a fair supply of alcohol. In most cases, this alcohol was purchased by a “cool dad” or older sibling. With alcohol so readily available to minors, it is easy for parents to think that they are looking out for their kids’ best interest by providing a safe venue for these activities. Many parents think that if kids are going to drink anyway, it is better for them to drink in the house. To a certain extent, this may be true. It probably is safer for minors to drink in the safety of the home than out in an empty parking lot. However, making the situation safer does not make it more legal.

In June, Elisa Kelly, a mother of two, was sentenced to two years in jail after hosting a party for her sons and their underaged friends. They had asked her to buy them beer, and she agreed on the condition that they would drink in the house after everyone surrendered their car keys and promised to stay the night. While she might have had the best of intentions, she was still breaking the law. Distributing to your high school offspring is still distributing, especially when it involves 20 of their buddies. There are exceptions in some states that allow parents to provide alcohol to their own children, but they do not allow for providing alcohol to other people’s children.

Each state differs when it comes to conditions of parental consent and alcohol use, so it is best to look up your state to be sure. Specifics on each state can be found at the Alcohol Policy Information’s website. The emerging trend is to make adults responsible for any consumption of alcohol on their property, whether or not they are aware of it. This law applies not only to parents, but to any host. That means college kids hosting parties can be held responsible for any of their underage keg-standing friends.

Allowing alcohol to be consumed by minors on your watch could cost you even more than your “cool mom” label. Heavy fines and imprisonment are serious consequences for serious crimes. So when in doubt, check IDs at the door.